Parenting Isn’t Supposed to Feel This Hard.

You love your child—but between the tantrums, the defiance, and the constant self-doubt, you feel like you’re doing it all wrong.

You’re not alone. And you’re not failing.

You just need tools that work for your real life—not someone else’s.

Hi, I’m Dr. Christine Clayman.

Parenting Coach. Educator. Mom of Two. Advocate for You.

I’ve raised two boys—one with special needs. I’ve sat on the floor in tears after a meltdown. I’ve yelled when I didn’t mean to. I’ve wondered if I was doing enough—or doing it wrong.

The Parent


Even with a doctorate in education and a background in classroom management, I found myself overwhelmed by my own child’s behavior. And I realized… this isn’t about what you know. It’s about how you connect.

The Professional

With 24+ years in education—as a teacher, administrator, and national trainer—I’ve supported hundreds of parents and educators across the U.S.

I hold a Doctorate in Educational Leadership and Conflict Resolution and I specialize in emotional intelligence, classroom dynamics, and positive behavior support. But most importantly? I listen. I personalize. I walk beside you, not ahead of you.

What Guides Everything We Do

Connection Before Correction

Kids listen better when they feel seen, safe, and understood.

Behavior Is Communication

Your child isn’t broken. Their behavior is a message. We help you decode it.

No Shame. No Guilt. No Scripts.


This isn’t about being the perfect parent. It’s about parenting with presence and purpose.

Practical Tools That Work in Real Homes


No fluff, no theory overload—just proven strategies that actually help.

Who We Help

If You’ve Ever Said…

“I just want my kid to listen without yelling.”


“Why does bedtime feel like a war zone?”


“I’m worried my child is falling behind emotionally.”


“I’ve read all the books, but nothing’s working for us.”

Then this coaching is for you.

We work with:

Parents of toddlers, teens, and young adults.


Families navigating ADHD, autism, or high sensitivity



Single parents, co-parents, and blended families



Anyone exhausted by power struggles and ready for peace



Why Parents Choose

Hands On Parenting

24+ years in education

Certified Parenting Coach & Classroom Trainer



Doctorate in Educational Leadership & Conflict Resolution

Experience as a special needs parent


Real tools. Real results. No pressure. No shame.

Our Family Has Been Transformed”
Since applying the tools from this program, our family dynamic has been completely transformed. The guidance Christine offers is practical, effective, and truly life-changing.

– Mother of Three

Want to See If We’re a Fit?


Watch this short video where I share what coaching with me is like—

and how we’ll work together to create a calmer home.

You Deserve to Feel Good

About How You Parent.



Let’s find a parenting rhythm that works—for you, your child, and your home.

You don’t have to read another book.


You don’t have to guess anymore.


You just need a plan—and someone in your corner.

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